November 29, 2009
Fill in the blank! (Answers posted below)
The two stages of Jesus’ life:
1. _______________
2. _______________
The four movements in the first:
1. _______________
2. _______________
3. _______________
4. _______________
The four movements in the second:
1. _______________
2. _______________
3. _______________
4. _______________
The three roles we see in every stage of Jesus’ ministry: Prophet, Priest and King. Together, this makes him uniquely the Messiah, or Christ.
The Prophet: Represents _____ to _____.
The Priest: Represents _____ to _____.
The King: Represents _____ _______ .
Read Hebrews 1:1-4.
Where do we see references to all three roles?
Read John 1:1-14.
Discuss Jesus’ role as prophet and the importance of the incarnation (Immanuel, “God with us.”)
Closing: make plans for a Christmas party, decide when the group will break, and plans to resume in January 2010.
_____
Fill in the blank answers:
The two stages of Jesus’ life:
1. the HUMILIATION
2. the EXALTATION
The four movements in the first:
1. Birth
2. Ministry
3. Suffering
4. Death
The four movements in the second:
1. Resurrection
2. Ascension
3. Return
4. Reign
The three roles we see in every stage of Jesus’ ministry: Prophet, Priest and King. Together, this makes him uniquely the Messiah, or Christ.
The Prophet: Presents GOD to US.
The Priest: Presents US to GOD.
The King: Presents GOD'S DOMINION .
Monday, November 30, 2009
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Settlers of Catan
Opener -
Have you ever felt like an outsider? At a party? At the in-laws? Talk about your experiences
Read Luke 15:11-32
What do you notice in this story? About the younger son? About the older son? About the Father?
Do you identify with any of the characters?
Do you ever feel “away from home” in this world?
Ben talked about many of us filling our longing for God (and a true home) with temporary things like food, sex, career, money, religion and family. How do you see that playing out in your life? What do you see being the biggest temptation for you?
Describe a time when you felt empty after chasing one of those temporary things.
Read 1 Peter 2:11 - Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul.
Do you feel like an exile/sojourner?
Where do you see implications for your life personally?
Ben discussed the French Foreign Legion (review if necessary), do you think we are becoming a community like that?
In our connection group?
In our church?
Have you ever felt like an outsider? At a party? At the in-laws? Talk about your experiences
Read Luke 15:11-32
What do you notice in this story? About the younger son? About the older son? About the Father?
Do you identify with any of the characters?
Do you ever feel “away from home” in this world?
Ben talked about many of us filling our longing for God (and a true home) with temporary things like food, sex, career, money, religion and family. How do you see that playing out in your life? What do you see being the biggest temptation for you?
Describe a time when you felt empty after chasing one of those temporary things.
Read 1 Peter 2:11 - Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul.
Do you feel like an exile/sojourner?
Where do you see implications for your life personally?
Ben discussed the French Foreign Legion (review if necessary), do you think we are becoming a community like that?
In our connection group?
In our church?
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Scrabble
Opening:
How have you presented, or had presented to you, the story of the bible? If this is totally new to you, perhaps a leader in the group can explain the bible, or as we often call presentations about Jesus, “the gospel.” Read John 20:30 and discuss, or for a gospel summary, Romans 6:23, but ask yourself, “is that all there is?”
Digging Deeper:
Follow along with the diagram and talk about each movement. Feel free to reference other scriptures as needed. Keep the discussion on track so you can get to the closing for several minutes of sharing.
CREATION: Connected Read Genesis1:27-2:3.
Do you see a connection between People and God, one another and creation? How does God describe what he made and how would you describe the plan for creation? Do you feel like we were meant for a world that doesn’t, or does not yet fully exist?
FALL: Disconnected Read Genesis 3:8-19.
Don’t get hung up on all the details here. Instead, describe the reality of disconnection. How does it affect human relationships with God, one another and the creation itself? How have you seen or been damaged by disconnection?
REDEMPTION: Connecting Read 2 Corinthians 5:17
Change must begin in us. What do you make of the story so far? Does everything point toward Jesus? Is Jesus the Son of God? Do you believe only he can offer us forgiveness from sins and victory over death? Do you believe in Jesus as you savior and Lord?
NEW CREATION: Reconnected Read 2 Corinthians 5:18-21
In the story Jesus came, died, rose and ascended to heaven. He promised to return and bring about the creation of the new heaven and earth (Revelation 21:1-5). In this time between, with our salvation secure and the hope of New Creation, we are to be Christ’s ambassadors. What does that mean? How does the church fulfill this mission? How do you as individuals fulfill this mission?
Closing:
Which circle are you in? 1. Nothing’s wrong, 2. Everything’s broken, 3. I’m all right because of Jesus, 4. I’m in mission with Jesus and the church? Obvious we are hoping for circle four. What will it take to get there?
* This picture, with only a few minor changes, was taken from "True Story" by James Choung.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
The Game of LIFE: Stratego
The following is designed to as a group exercise in order for you to receive counsel on your life plan. It would be most beneficial for you to come to your group having written out a draft of your plan.
Opening:
Read Proverbs 19:21 (in your program).
If someone in your group seems particularly gifted in organizing their life, and others lives, have them share some of their life plans, how they discerned their plans, and how they have implemented their life plans.
Review our three guiding proverbs as found in the program this morning: 15:22, 16:3 and 16:9.
Discuss the importance of counsel, determination and openness to God’s changes to your plans.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.”
~ Jeremiah 29:11
I. Discover God’s PURPOSE for your life:
Exercise- write your own epitaph. Thinking now of what is most glorifying to God, what do you want said of you by your family, friends, church and community? What do you want God to say about your life as well?
One other way to help us understand ourselves is to reflect on your SHAPE (Spiritual gifts, Heart, Abilities, Personality, Experiences).
II. Discern your LIFE PLAN:
How do you want to develop in the following most important areas of life? (You may add to this list, but you cannot take away):
- Relationship with God
- Relationship with People
- Relationship with Yourself: health, hobbies, etc
- Relationship with Work
- Relationship with Money
III. Activate your MISSION:
Now you must get practical, put your plan into a statement, verse, list or paragraph that you can remember. Then put it into action steps in the following areas:
- Legacy: Plans for the end of your life (Should be directions plans that can be implemented immediately, but will take a lifetime to achieve)
- Mid-range Plans: 2-10 years
- Short-range Plans: 1-2 years
- Daily/Weekly/Season: this is your SYSTEM to write and implement your plans. Remember the importance of putting your plans into a workable weekly practice so that you can do your work and get your Sabbath.
Go to http://ldp.lifechurch.tv/jsp/main.jsp
Saturday, October 31, 2009
The Game of LIFE: Cranium
Opening
Take time to play an opening game this week! Something to get people interacting- charades, pictionary, something silly.
Digging Deeper
The passage we are really getting into requires context. Read the “doxology” (doxa= glory, logos= word) in Rm 11:33-36. Review the attributes of God described. Reflect on these things. Then share your own “doxology” or “words of glory” to God.How does this set the stage for what is about to come?
What Paul is about to ask falls in light of the doxology, and in light of God’s mercy? What is God’s mercy? Share from you own knowledge and experience.
Read Romans 12:1-2. The first thing we do in light of God’s mercy is to offer our bodies. Practically, how do we do this?
Why is this so important? What does this tell us about how God views our physical bodies? What does this mean for the value of other peoples bodies and physical needs?
Paul creates an amazing juxtaposition: the offering of our bodies as living sacrifices as our spiritual act of worship, as compared with offering animals as dead sacrifices in temple worship. Spend some time working through the implications of this- how does this mean for how we worship and “do” religion?
The word for spiritual is from the Greek “logikos.” How should this radically change the way many of us view “spiritual” things? What does it mean to say we are spiritual people in light of this passage? What does this imply about our priority on worship?
Another great juxtaposition appears between being conformed and transformed. Describe the pattern of this world and how we are conformed. Compare this to the transformation of the mind in Christ. Get practical- how have we become too conformed? Where do we need be transformed? How can we apply our minds to this endeavor?
So what comes first, belief of behavior? Do we offer our bodies to change our minds, or change our minds to offer our bodies? Or are we creating a false dichotomy here? Are we better served seeing ourselves in a more holistic way? Explore the implications of this passage and your own experience. Share your own interaction of mind and body, and how they have affected the other.
Closing
The passage ends with an amazing promise- do this and be able to test and approve God’s will. Do you want to do God’s will? What do you believe is God’s will for your life?
Pray, share announcements, and make a plan for a group games night.
Take time to play an opening game this week! Something to get people interacting- charades, pictionary, something silly.
Digging Deeper
The passage we are really getting into requires context. Read the “doxology” (doxa= glory, logos= word) in Rm 11:33-36. Review the attributes of God described. Reflect on these things. Then share your own “doxology” or “words of glory” to God.How does this set the stage for what is about to come?
What Paul is about to ask falls in light of the doxology, and in light of God’s mercy? What is God’s mercy? Share from you own knowledge and experience.
Read Romans 12:1-2. The first thing we do in light of God’s mercy is to offer our bodies. Practically, how do we do this?
Why is this so important? What does this tell us about how God views our physical bodies? What does this mean for the value of other peoples bodies and physical needs?
Paul creates an amazing juxtaposition: the offering of our bodies as living sacrifices as our spiritual act of worship, as compared with offering animals as dead sacrifices in temple worship. Spend some time working through the implications of this- how does this mean for how we worship and “do” religion?
The word for spiritual is from the Greek “logikos.” How should this radically change the way many of us view “spiritual” things? What does it mean to say we are spiritual people in light of this passage? What does this imply about our priority on worship?
Another great juxtaposition appears between being conformed and transformed. Describe the pattern of this world and how we are conformed. Compare this to the transformation of the mind in Christ. Get practical- how have we become too conformed? Where do we need be transformed? How can we apply our minds to this endeavor?
So what comes first, belief of behavior? Do we offer our bodies to change our minds, or change our minds to offer our bodies? Or are we creating a false dichotomy here? Are we better served seeing ourselves in a more holistic way? Explore the implications of this passage and your own experience. Share your own interaction of mind and body, and how they have affected the other.
Closing
The passage ends with an amazing promise- do this and be able to test and approve God’s will. Do you want to do God’s will? What do you believe is God’s will for your life?
Pray, share announcements, and make a plan for a group games night.
Monday, October 26, 2009
UNVEILED Legion
Opening
Have you ever felt like you were in the presence of real evil? Not just something or someone bad, but something, dare we say, demonic? If so, please share with the group what that was like, how you felt, what you did.
Digging Deeper
The passage we are going to look at seems appropriate in the Halloween season. Jesus unveils a dark spiritual reality in the world, one that we might not want to look into or even acknowledge. But for Jesus, it was very real.
Read Luke 8:26-39
Let’s walk through the story:
• What seems to be the nature of demonic possession, as compared to oppression, or temptation, as we see in Matthew 4:1-11?
The demons (Legion) acknowledge and seem helpless simply in the presence of Jesus.
Closing
This story brings up many controversial and complicated questions. Take time to address any burning questions. Then give assurance that all who commit their lives to Jesus are promised protection from evil and the security of heaven.
Wrap up with announcements and prayer to close this UNVEILED series.
Have you ever felt like you were in the presence of real evil? Not just something or someone bad, but something, dare we say, demonic? If so, please share with the group what that was like, how you felt, what you did.
Digging Deeper
The passage we are going to look at seems appropriate in the Halloween season. Jesus unveils a dark spiritual reality in the world, one that we might not want to look into or even acknowledge. But for Jesus, it was very real.
Read Luke 8:26-39
- Do you believe in a literal heaven, and hell? Angels, and demons? Why or why not or what questions do you have? How does the biblical narrative demand the existence of these “supernatural” realities?
- Further study/reading on the origin and nature of Satan see Isaiah 14:12-23, Job 1, 1 Chr. 21:1, Eph. 6:10-12
Let’s walk through the story:
• What seems to be the nature of demonic possession, as compared to oppression, or temptation, as we see in Matthew 4:1-11?
The demons (Legion) acknowledge and seem helpless simply in the presence of Jesus.
- Considering this, who then should be afraid of Satan/demons, and why?
- Who has no need to fear Satan/demons, and why?
- Why does Jesus honor Legions request?
- How is their fate symbolic in the Jewish context?
- What is the result for this man?
- How is Legion a metaphor for many lives today?
- Do you think many people in our community struggle with actual demons, or the demons of their own creation?
- Considering now the close of this story, what wouldn’t you give to be found clothed, cleaned, and in your right mind?
- How can Jesus do this for all of us?
- How can we go to our respective homes and tell how much God has done for us?
Closing
This story brings up many controversial and complicated questions. Take time to address any burning questions. Then give assurance that all who commit their lives to Jesus are promised protection from evil and the security of heaven.
Wrap up with announcements and prayer to close this UNVEILED series.
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Unveiled Sin: October 18, 2009
Opening
Maybe a few folks from the group could share a story of being “busted.” Maybe it was a humorous experience, something you can laugh about now; or maybe it was humiliating, but God used it for great things in your life.
Digging Deeper
Read John 8:1-11 and take few minutes to review the story:
• Why does the whole set-up seem so suspicious?
• Why are the religious leaders so against Jesus at this point? (Why would they say Jesus needed to be stopped?)
• Why do you think Jesus seems to ignore their question at first?
• Why do think the older ones left first?
• How does Jesus demonstrate a “tough love” to this woman?
Now let’s get a little more personal.
• Share with the group if you ever felt set-up like the woman.
• Share if you’ve ever felt set up like Jesus was, in a catch-22.
• Share if you’ve ever been so angry that you were the one setting someone up for a fall.
Have you been holding onto any stones of hatred, jealousy, or revenge?
Have you ever felt like you life was saved from the brink of death?
Would you say you feel condemned by people or God, or have you experienced the forgiveness of sin that this woman experienced?
Have you left a life of sin, or is there a sin now that you must leave? Can you ask the group for prayer, support and encouragement to walk this new path?
Closing
Make plans for a service and/or social event.
Go over our church announcements.
Close in prayer.
Maybe a few folks from the group could share a story of being “busted.” Maybe it was a humorous experience, something you can laugh about now; or maybe it was humiliating, but God used it for great things in your life.
Digging Deeper
Read John 8:1-11 and take few minutes to review the story:
• Why does the whole set-up seem so suspicious?
• Why are the religious leaders so against Jesus at this point? (Why would they say Jesus needed to be stopped?)
• Why do you think Jesus seems to ignore their question at first?
• Why do think the older ones left first?
• How does Jesus demonstrate a “tough love” to this woman?
Now let’s get a little more personal.
• Share with the group if you ever felt set-up like the woman.
• Share if you’ve ever felt set up like Jesus was, in a catch-22.
• Share if you’ve ever been so angry that you were the one setting someone up for a fall.
Have you been holding onto any stones of hatred, jealousy, or revenge?
Have you ever felt like you life was saved from the brink of death?
Would you say you feel condemned by people or God, or have you experienced the forgiveness of sin that this woman experienced?
Have you left a life of sin, or is there a sin now that you must leave? Can you ask the group for prayer, support and encouragement to walk this new path?
Closing
Make plans for a service and/or social event.
Go over our church announcements.
Close in prayer.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Got Thirst?
Opening: Review
We got a jump on Thanksgiving last week by working to raise our “G.P.A” (Gratitude Projection Average). We offered 3 practical steps. Discuss how you did in each area:
Digging Deeper: Read John 4:1-42
This passage has two main characters, and 2 main points: Jesus, and the woman.
First the woman: Share your thought on this woman. What do we learn about our own thirst from her?
What are the deepest human thirsts?
How have we succeeded in quenching them?
How have we failed?
Now Jesus: How does Jesus encounter the woman? What does this teach us about our availability to God, and to people?
Discuss Jesus’ use of acceptance, and confrontation. How does he blend the two?
What can we learn about our own witnessing from his example?
Where should we be sensitive?
Where should we be bold?
What can we offer, and how should we offer it?
Before we can offer what Jesus offers, we must first understand our own thirst, and receive Jesus’ initiation. Have you received the gift of living water offered by Jesus? Or do you still feel thirsty in life?
Closing:
Review announcements and upcoming events.
Share prayer requests and pray for each other.
Make plans for a service project or some social activities for your group.
We got a jump on Thanksgiving last week by working to raise our “G.P.A” (Gratitude Projection Average). We offered 3 practical steps. Discuss how you did in each area:
- Beginning, and ending, each day with thanks? See Psalm 92:1-2
- Turning griping into gratitude? I Thessalonians 5:18
- Write a “Thank You” note to God? Psalm 103:2
Digging Deeper: Read John 4:1-42
This passage has two main characters, and 2 main points: Jesus, and the woman.
First the woman: Share your thought on this woman. What do we learn about our own thirst from her?
What are the deepest human thirsts?
How have we succeeded in quenching them?
How have we failed?
Now Jesus: How does Jesus encounter the woman? What does this teach us about our availability to God, and to people?
Discuss Jesus’ use of acceptance, and confrontation. How does he blend the two?
What can we learn about our own witnessing from his example?
Where should we be sensitive?
Where should we be bold?
What can we offer, and how should we offer it?
Before we can offer what Jesus offers, we must first understand our own thirst, and receive Jesus’ initiation. Have you received the gift of living water offered by Jesus? Or do you still feel thirsty in life?
Closing:
Review announcements and upcoming events.
Share prayer requests and pray for each other.
Make plans for a service project or some social activities for your group.
Monday, October 5, 2009
UNVEILED, October 4, 2009
Opening:Maybe start with a game - give everyone a handful of candy. They must share something for which they are thankful for every piece they get.
Would you say you are a thankful person?
Digging Deeper:
Fill out your report card: (A is outstanding, B is good, C needs improvement, D is, well, you know what a D is.)
1. Writing thank-you notes to people when appropriate: A B C D
2. Beginning each day with thanksgiving: A B C D
3. Thanking God for what is good, instead of complaining about what is wrong: A B C D
4. Remembering what you are thankful for: A B C D
5. Thanking God when times are good: A B C D
6. Thanking God when times are bad: A B C D
7. Thanking God when times just are: A B C D
8. Thanking God and taking nothing for granted: A B C D
So what is your GPA (Gratitude Projection Average)? Where are you doing well with gratitude? Where can you make improvements?
Read Psalm 100.
Go through this verse-by-verse and discuss what it teaches us about God, ourselves, and the importance of giving thanks and expressing gratitude.
What do the following teach us about gratitude?
Psalm 92:1-2
I Thessalonians 5:18
Psalm 103:2
Romans 1:21
Closing:
Give thanks. Go around and share how you will improve your GPA. Spend time actually giving thanks and praising God.
It would be especially appropriate to praise God in song if someone in the group can lead.
UNVEILED, September 27, 2009
Opening:
Welcome new comers. Play an “ice breaker.” Review the Connection Group Commitment if necessary.
Reflection: What material or earthy possession is most important to you? Maybe it’s your money, your home or hometown. Maybe it’s more abstract, like your career. It’s the thing, more than anything else, that you would hate to give up, let go or lose.
Digging Deeper:
Read Mark 10: 17-22
In the belief system of the original audience, what does being Jewish, male, young, wealthy and influential say about a person? How is this the model of the “blessed’ life? In our own day, what is typically associated with the blessings
of God? Where do cultural and scriptural definitions of blessing meet? Where do they diverge?
Is the question, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?” a burning question in your life? Why, or why not? Do you agree with George’s observation that it is usually busy middle-aged folks who ignore this question?
Jesus points the man to the commandments. How do you view the commandments: are they a “to-do” list that gets you into heaven? A fence that keeps you safe and in line? A mirror that reflects your shortcomings? Something else? What is the connection between eternal life and the commands?
John 17:3. “Now this is eternal life: that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” What does that even mean? How is eternal life akin to knowing God through Jesus Christ?
The man is adamant that he has kept the commands. Yet the question of eternal life still weights on him. What does Jesus tell him to do? What do you think the other disciples thought about this? How does this fit your answer to the question, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?”
What does Jesus’ answer reveal about this man’s heart?
Now, being as honest as we can with ourselves, what might Jesus tell us to sell, give up or change if we are to experience eternal life, i.e., knowing God and Jesus Christ whom he has sent? In other words, who or what stands between you and Jesus? What can you do about it?
If you have 10 more minutes: Read Mark 10:23-31 and discuss verse 27.
Closing:
Pray for one another and share updates on what’s happening in our church community.
Welcome new comers. Play an “ice breaker.” Review the Connection Group Commitment if necessary.
Reflection: What material or earthy possession is most important to you? Maybe it’s your money, your home or hometown. Maybe it’s more abstract, like your career. It’s the thing, more than anything else, that you would hate to give up, let go or lose.
Digging Deeper:
Read Mark 10: 17-22
In the belief system of the original audience, what does being Jewish, male, young, wealthy and influential say about a person? How is this the model of the “blessed’ life? In our own day, what is typically associated with the blessings
of God? Where do cultural and scriptural definitions of blessing meet? Where do they diverge?
Is the question, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?” a burning question in your life? Why, or why not? Do you agree with George’s observation that it is usually busy middle-aged folks who ignore this question?
Jesus points the man to the commandments. How do you view the commandments: are they a “to-do” list that gets you into heaven? A fence that keeps you safe and in line? A mirror that reflects your shortcomings? Something else? What is the connection between eternal life and the commands?
John 17:3. “Now this is eternal life: that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” What does that even mean? How is eternal life akin to knowing God through Jesus Christ?
The man is adamant that he has kept the commands. Yet the question of eternal life still weights on him. What does Jesus tell him to do? What do you think the other disciples thought about this? How does this fit your answer to the question, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?”
What does Jesus’ answer reveal about this man’s heart?
Now, being as honest as we can with ourselves, what might Jesus tell us to sell, give up or change if we are to experience eternal life, i.e., knowing God and Jesus Christ whom he has sent? In other words, who or what stands between you and Jesus? What can you do about it?
If you have 10 more minutes: Read Mark 10:23-31 and discuss verse 27.
Closing:
Pray for one another and share updates on what’s happening in our church community.
Saturday, September 19, 2009
UNVEILED, September 20, 2009
Opening:
Welcome new comers. Play an “ice breaker.” Review the Connection Group Commitment if necessary.
Reflection: Have you ever had an experience where you got more than you expected? Or, maybe you’ve had that more common experience, you didn’t get what you wanted, but you got what needed. Share a few stories.
Now get into the text- read Mark 2:1-12.
Digging Deeper:
Have you ever hoped for a miraculous healing, for yourself or for someone else? What specifically did you want God to do? Did it happen? If so, how.
If not, what did that do to you r faith? What happened to you or the person for whom you wanted healing?
In the story the friends have great faith in Jesus, and were willing to go to an extreme to bring their friend to him. To what lengths have we gone to bring a friend to Jesus?
When Jesus says, “Your sins are forgiven,” we know how the teachers felt, but what about the man, his friends, the crowd? What do you think they were thinking?
Let’s get into this issue of sin. What is sin? Is the forgiveness of our sins really the harder thing? Is it really our greatest need? Really work this one over in the group.
Now let’s get into the issue of our sin. Do we feel we need forgiven? Have you accepted the forgiveness Jesus offers?
Now let’s directly compare our lives. How has Jesus meet a felt need in your life that confirms his power to meet your deepest need of forgiveness?
If you had to compare yourself to one of these people/groups, who would it be and why- the paralytic, his friends, the crowd, or the teachers of the law? Have you always been in this group, or has your view changed recently?
Closing:
What are your felt needs right now? Share as much as you are comfortable, so that this group may take your need to Jesus in prayer with you.
Set a date now to volunteer at the London Food Bank! Think about whom you might invite to your group.
Review the announcements from worship- Volunteer Round-up, Volunteer Opportunities, the 100th Service Celebration.
Welcome new comers. Play an “ice breaker.” Review the Connection Group Commitment if necessary.
Reflection: Have you ever had an experience where you got more than you expected? Or, maybe you’ve had that more common experience, you didn’t get what you wanted, but you got what needed. Share a few stories.
Now get into the text- read Mark 2:1-12.
Digging Deeper:
Have you ever hoped for a miraculous healing, for yourself or for someone else? What specifically did you want God to do? Did it happen? If so, how.
If not, what did that do to you r faith? What happened to you or the person for whom you wanted healing?
In the story the friends have great faith in Jesus, and were willing to go to an extreme to bring their friend to him. To what lengths have we gone to bring a friend to Jesus?
When Jesus says, “Your sins are forgiven,” we know how the teachers felt, but what about the man, his friends, the crowd? What do you think they were thinking?
Let’s get into this issue of sin. What is sin? Is the forgiveness of our sins really the harder thing? Is it really our greatest need? Really work this one over in the group.
Now let’s get into the issue of our sin. Do we feel we need forgiven? Have you accepted the forgiveness Jesus offers?
Now let’s directly compare our lives. How has Jesus meet a felt need in your life that confirms his power to meet your deepest need of forgiveness?
If you had to compare yourself to one of these people/groups, who would it be and why- the paralytic, his friends, the crowd, or the teachers of the law? Have you always been in this group, or has your view changed recently?
Closing:
What are your felt needs right now? Share as much as you are comfortable, so that this group may take your need to Jesus in prayer with you.
Set a date now to volunteer at the London Food Bank! Think about whom you might invite to your group.
Review the announcements from worship- Volunteer Round-up, Volunteer Opportunities, the 100th Service Celebration.
Monday, September 14, 2009
UNVEILED, September 13, 2009
Opening:
Since this is your first meeting take the time for introductions. If there are a lot of familiar faces in your group make sure you truly welcome the new comers.
Play an “ice breaker.”
If this next part takes the whole meeting, fine.
Read over the “Connection Group Commitment.”
Make sure the group is clear on the purpose of the Group and the expectations of participants.
If you feel the need to add to the commitment, go ahead- just make sure folks are in agreement.
Address childcare needs if relevant.
Send around a sign-up for snacks!
This is really the purpose of tonight’s meeting!
Digging Deeper:
If you have time to get into the study, start by sharing some of your own “Unveiled” moments- a time, an experience, an event that opened your eyes and you saw yourself, life, or Jesus in a whole new way. If anyone has a great story we might ask you to share it during a worship service!
Get into the text- read all of Matthew 3.
Tell us about your baptism? Share 2-3 different stories- perhaps some was baptized as a baby, another as a youth, and someone as an adult.
What do you believe regarding baptism?
Why does the church see this as such an important event? Do you see this as an important moment in the life of a Christian?
For more background on baptism you can read Connections Statement regarding this practice at Connection Articles. You can also read Matthew 28:18-20, Acts 2:37-47, Acts 8:35-39, Acts 16:14-15, Romans 6:1-9, Ephesians 4:4-6 (and this is just a small sampling!)
Now focus on Jesus’ baptism: Why is Jesus baptized?
What does this teach us about the meaning and purpose of baptism?
What does this baptism “unveil” about Jesus, God, the Holy Spirit, and reality, as we know it?
How is our baptism different than Jesus’?
Closing:
Set a date now to volunteer at the London Food Bank! Think about whom you might invite to your group.
Review the announcements from worship- upcoming events and volunteer opportunities.
Pray for one another.
Since this is your first meeting take the time for introductions. If there are a lot of familiar faces in your group make sure you truly welcome the new comers.
Play an “ice breaker.”
If this next part takes the whole meeting, fine.
Read over the “Connection Group Commitment.”
Make sure the group is clear on the purpose of the Group and the expectations of participants.
If you feel the need to add to the commitment, go ahead- just make sure folks are in agreement.
Address childcare needs if relevant.
Send around a sign-up for snacks!
This is really the purpose of tonight’s meeting!
Digging Deeper:
If you have time to get into the study, start by sharing some of your own “Unveiled” moments- a time, an experience, an event that opened your eyes and you saw yourself, life, or Jesus in a whole new way. If anyone has a great story we might ask you to share it during a worship service!
Get into the text- read all of Matthew 3.
Tell us about your baptism? Share 2-3 different stories- perhaps some was baptized as a baby, another as a youth, and someone as an adult.
What do you believe regarding baptism?
Why does the church see this as such an important event? Do you see this as an important moment in the life of a Christian?
For more background on baptism you can read Connections Statement regarding this practice at Connection Articles. You can also read Matthew 28:18-20, Acts 2:37-47, Acts 8:35-39, Acts 16:14-15, Romans 6:1-9, Ephesians 4:4-6 (and this is just a small sampling!)
Now focus on Jesus’ baptism: Why is Jesus baptized?
What does this teach us about the meaning and purpose of baptism?
What does this baptism “unveil” about Jesus, God, the Holy Spirit, and reality, as we know it?
How is our baptism different than Jesus’?
Closing:
Set a date now to volunteer at the London Food Bank! Think about whom you might invite to your group.
Review the announcements from worship- upcoming events and volunteer opportunities.
Pray for one another.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Connection Group Commitment
“Connecting with God.
Connecting with people.
Connecting with the world.”
Connection Groups target the second part of our mission- to connect with people. We believe that being in relationships in the body of Christ is an essential part of every Christ-followers life. In the days of the early Church the first Christ followers gathered the first day of the week (Sunday) for worship. In addition, they meet throughout the week in homes (Acts 2:46; Romans 16:5; 1 Corinthians 16:19; Colossians 4:15). We believe that being a part of a Connection Group is not something we do in addition to “going to church,” it is essential to “be the church.” Why? Because relationships matter- with God and with other people in “the body of Christ.”
We gather around the following principles:
Common Purpose: To become more Christ-like in all areas of life. CG’s do this by creating an environment to...
BELONG- 1 Peter 2: 9 But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.
GROW- Colossians 1: 28 We proclaim him, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone perfect in Christ.
SERVE- 1 Peter 4:10 Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms.
Common Place: To become more a part of our neighborhood, intentionally knowing and being available one another and our neighbors.
Common Possessions: To become more generous in supporting one another spiritually, emotionally, socially and physically.
Therefore,
• We agree to meet for the duration of this semester.
• We will try to make every meeting, or let our facilitator know we will be absent.
• We will discuss the topic/text of worship services or our focus group.
• We will make worshiping at Connections a priority and actively participate in these discussions.
• We will support our facilitators and hosts and respect their roles.
• We will be respecters of all persons in our group.
• We will practice confidentiality.
• We will seek to deepen relationships within the group.
• We will care for and include the families/children of our group.
• We will make a plan to serve together.
• We will make a plan to play together.
When: _________________________________________________
Where: _________________________________________________
Signature: ______________________________________________
UNVEILED, September 13, 2009
Opening:
Since this is your first meeting take the time for introductions. If there are a lot of familiar faces in your group make sure you truly welcome the new comers.
Play an “ice breaker.”
If this next part takes the whole meeting, fine.
Read over the “Connection Group Commitment.”
Make sure the group is clear on the purpose of the Group and the expectations of participants.
If you feel the need to add to the commitment, go ahead- just make sure folks are in agreement.
Address childcare needs if relevant.
Send around a sign-up for snacks!
This is really the purpose of tonight’s meeting!
Digging Deeper:
If you have time to get into the study, start by sharing some of your own “Unveiled” moments- a time, an experience, an event that opened your eyes and you saw yourself, life, or Jesus in a whole new way. If anyone has a great story we might ask you to share it during a worship service!
Get into the text- read all of Matthew 3.
Tell us about your baptism? Share 2-3 different stories- perhaps some was baptized as a baby, another as a youth, and someone as an adult.
What do you believe regarding baptism?
Why does the church see this as such an important event? Do you see this as an important moment in the life of a Christian?
For more background on baptism you can read Connections Statement regarding this practice at Connection Articles. You can also read Matthew 28:18-20, Acts 2:37-47, Acts 8:35-39, Acts 16:14-15, Romans 6:1-9, Ephesians 4:4-6 (and this is just a small sampling!)
Now focus on Jesus’ baptism: Why is Jesus baptized?
What does this teach us about the meaning and purpose of baptism?
What does this baptism “unveil” about Jesus, God, the Holy Spirit, and reality, as we know it?
How is our baptism different than Jesus’?
Closing:
Set a date now to volunteer at the London Food Bank! Think about whom you might invite to your group.
Review the announcements from worship- upcoming events and volunteer opportunities.
Pray for one another.
Since this is your first meeting take the time for introductions. If there are a lot of familiar faces in your group make sure you truly welcome the new comers.
Play an “ice breaker.”
If this next part takes the whole meeting, fine.
Read over the “Connection Group Commitment.”
Make sure the group is clear on the purpose of the Group and the expectations of participants.
If you feel the need to add to the commitment, go ahead- just make sure folks are in agreement.
Address childcare needs if relevant.
Send around a sign-up for snacks!
This is really the purpose of tonight’s meeting!
Digging Deeper:
If you have time to get into the study, start by sharing some of your own “Unveiled” moments- a time, an experience, an event that opened your eyes and you saw yourself, life, or Jesus in a whole new way. If anyone has a great story we might ask you to share it during a worship service!
Get into the text- read all of Matthew 3.
Tell us about your baptism? Share 2-3 different stories- perhaps some was baptized as a baby, another as a youth, and someone as an adult.
What do you believe regarding baptism?
Why does the church see this as such an important event? Do you see this as an important moment in the life of a Christian?
For more background on baptism you can read Connections Statement regarding this practice at Connection Articles. You can also read Matthew 28:18-20, Acts 2:37-47, Acts 8:35-39, Acts 16:14-15, Romans 6:1-9, Ephesians 4:4-6 (and this is just a small sampling!)
Now focus on Jesus’ baptism: Why is Jesus baptized?
What does this teach us about the meaning and purpose of baptism?
What does this baptism “unveil” about Jesus, God, the Holy Spirit, and reality, as we know it?
How is our baptism different than Jesus’?
Closing:
Set a date now to volunteer at the London Food Bank! Think about whom you might invite to your group.
Review the announcements from worship- upcoming events and volunteer opportunities.
Pray for one another.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Catalog: Fall 2009
We're gearing up to launch our Fall 2009 Semester of Connection Groups.
- Check out the list.
- Send your top two picks to gsaylor@connectionschurch.ca
- A leader will be in touch. It's that simple.
- Central Lunch: Wednesdays 12-1pm, 531 Talbot St
- West: Sundays 6-7:30pm, 992 Blythwood Rd
- Hyde Park: Mondays 7-8:30pm, 19 Ardsley Rd
- North Central: Wednesdays 7-8:30pm, 15 Wakefield Cres
- Southeast: Sundays 8-9:30pm, 111 Kipling Ave
- Southwest (Byron): Sundays 6-7:30pm, 736 Griffith St
- West (Strathroy): Sundays, time TBA, 2 Dixon Lane
- P.O.L.O. (Parents Of Little Ones): Thursdays 10-11am, McDonald’s on Fanshawe
- Men’s Group/Women’s Group: Wednesdays 6:15-7:45pm, North London
- Groups run on the semester format: Fall, Winter, Summer
- Groups have a clear starting and stopping date
- Groups are organized geographically
- Groups are intergenerational
- Groups are made up of about 12-16 adults
- Groups of less than 12 will remain open for registration
- Groups will have a Facilitator, a Facilitator-in-Training and a Host who will help with hospitality
- Groups will typically meet for 1.5 hours each week
- Group members will agree to a group “commitment” at the beginning of each semester
- The standard Connections Group curriculum will be a discussion based off of the Sunday worship service
- A “typical” meeting will follow the A.C.T.S. model:
- Adoration- a time to worship God through eating, singing, sharing, laughing, praying, etc
- Conversation: a time to talk with each other
- Teaching: groups will learn through discussing the bible text/topic together
- Supplication: a big word for prayer- taking time to really pray for each other in community
- Groups are built around three principles: a common purpose, common place and common possessions
- Groups are encouraged to discover ways to serve in the community
- Groups are encouraged to share some fun time together
- Some groups may focus on special needs or topics, such as our POLO group and ALPHA
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Double Vision
“Where there is no vision, the people perish...” Proverbs 29:18
A great way to get a handle on your vision is to imagine your epitaph. Pretty morbid, but effective. Take a moment to quietly think about how you’d like to be remembered. Don’t worry about the past for this exercise- only think from this point forward. Imagine living to a ripe old age- how do you want to finish your life? How do you want to finish the following statements...
Now let’s talk about you vision, Connections vision, and how they might intersect.
Thinking now on where you want your life to end up, are you able to articulate a vision for your life?
For your family, for your spouse, for your children?
For your your work?
How is God a part of each of these areas?
Has your vision been greatly affected by the bible in any way?
Who have been the people that have profoundly shaped your vision?
The clearer you can be, the better. But if this just helps you to start thinking about this and articulating a few thoughts, fine.
Now let’s look at the vision of Connections. What is the vision of Connections? (Hint, finish the following, “Connecting with...”)
It’s one thing to say the vision. How would you explain or articulate the vision of Connections? How does it serve as our vision, our mission, and a model of doing ministry?
If it helps, think about tangible examples of how we are living out each of our three main areas of mission.
Looking now at the Double Vision document, what are our three tangible goals as a church?
Do you think these are a good direction?
Do you think they are attainable and glorifying to God?
How will moving toward these goals change things at Connections?
Does that excite you, or frighten you?
Think about some of the changes this means for our people. In what areas do you think we need to grow most- volunteers, serving families/individuals, or missional engagement in our community?
It’s OK to be really excited about one area. In fact, it might be a great thing if different people are more excited about different areas.
Finally, let’s look at our take away: RPMs
Resources
Prayer
Ministry
How can you invest your RPMs into your own vision?
Into Connections vision?
Where can the two intersect?
A great way to get a handle on your vision is to imagine your epitaph. Pretty morbid, but effective. Take a moment to quietly think about how you’d like to be remembered. Don’t worry about the past for this exercise- only think from this point forward. Imagine living to a ripe old age- how do you want to finish your life? How do you want to finish the following statements...
- What was most important to me was...
- I left a mark in the world by...
- God was glorified because I...
- The people I loved knew I loved them because...
- God will say to me, “Well done, good and faithful servant,“ because I...
Now let’s talk about you vision, Connections vision, and how they might intersect.
Thinking now on where you want your life to end up, are you able to articulate a vision for your life?
For your family, for your spouse, for your children?
For your your work?
How is God a part of each of these areas?
Has your vision been greatly affected by the bible in any way?
Who have been the people that have profoundly shaped your vision?
The clearer you can be, the better. But if this just helps you to start thinking about this and articulating a few thoughts, fine.
Now let’s look at the vision of Connections. What is the vision of Connections? (Hint, finish the following, “Connecting with...”)
It’s one thing to say the vision. How would you explain or articulate the vision of Connections? How does it serve as our vision, our mission, and a model of doing ministry?
If it helps, think about tangible examples of how we are living out each of our three main areas of mission.
Looking now at the Double Vision document, what are our three tangible goals as a church?
Do you think these are a good direction?
Do you think they are attainable and glorifying to God?
How will moving toward these goals change things at Connections?
Does that excite you, or frighten you?
Think about some of the changes this means for our people. In what areas do you think we need to grow most- volunteers, serving families/individuals, or missional engagement in our community?
It’s OK to be really excited about one area. In fact, it might be a great thing if different people are more excited about different areas.
Finally, let’s look at our take away: RPMs
Resources
Prayer
Ministry
How can you invest your RPMs into your own vision?
Into Connections vision?
Where can the two intersect?
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Blood, Bath & Beyond: Palm Sunday
CONNECTION GROUP QUESTIONS
April 5, 2009
The following readings will walk you through “Palm Sunday,“ the Sunday before Easter, the day Jesus entered Jerusalem. Jesus and his followers came to the city to celebrate the Passover and the week long Feast of Unleavened Bread. These events commemorated Israel’s liberation from Egypt, when God “passed over” homes marked by the blood of a lamb. The religious leaders knew that Jesus, a rabbi, would be in Jerusalem and conspired to have him killed.
Anticipation
Read Matthew 21: 1-11
Anticipation is different than having expectations. Try to get past your pre-existing expectations for how and where God will work in this time and this coming week. Just anticipate drawing deeper into a relationship with God through Jesus. Anticipate a richer understanding of your salvation that will deepen your relationship with God, your sense of peace and security in the work of Christ, and your awareness of the presence of the Holy Spirit. Anticipate an amazing Holy Week and Easter celebration.
“Hosanna” was a Hebrew expression that meant, “Save us!” It became an expression of praise. As you begin this time of prayer, start with praise. Praise God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
Now, more specifically, pray over those areas in which you need saved. As the crowd shouted, “Save us,” call to Jesus, “Save me.” Get specific, save my life, my children, my marriage, my job, save my...
Preparation
Read Matthew 21:12-17
In a fit of righteous anger Jesus drove the hucksters and shysters from the temple. What in you should elicit some righteous anger from Jesus? What does he want to drive out from you? After all, we are taught that
our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit. He wants us to be better at being ourselves!
This is your time of confession. Air your sins. Clear out the dirty laundry. Confession is good for the soul! How have you gone against God? What needs turned over and removed from your life? Have faith that wherever Jesus turns you over and cleans you out, he is also going to set you right and fill you up.
Jesus goes on to teach that his Father’s house will be a house of prayer. Drawing the connection, we should be people of prayer. Read again the simple praise of the sick and the children, v. 14-15. How are you sick? Where do you need healed? Pray about it. Then spend some time in that child-like praise. Keep it simple, honest, real. Just praise him as you might want to be praised by a child.
Supplication
Read Matthew 21:18-22
Now here’s the hard part. Let’s stretch our faith in prayer. Don’t get too wrapped up in studying this passage. Let it inspire your heart-felt prayers. Pray like you can move mountains! Pray it like you really believe it! Make this the bulk of your prayer time. Here are some suggested areas to pray over in Supplication:
• Your own relationship with God to grow deeper and closer this coming week.
• Blessing and healing for your spouse, children, and other loved ones.
• Salvation for family and friends who don’t know Jesus as their Lord.
• Blessing and growth at Connections Community Church.
• The needs of our neighbors- hurting marriages, broken families, unemployment, sickness, mental illness, AIDS in Africa, etc.
• Pray for local leaders right up through to world leaders.
• Pray for the end to war- focus on the Israel, Afghanistan and Iraq. Pray for peace.
Adoration
Read Matthew 26:6-13
Think of a time when you were adored. How did it make you feel? How did you respond? What can you offer to God in adoration? What have you been holding back? What would unabashed, unashamed, unrestrained adoration of Jesus look like for you? How can you give Him your all, your best? As your prayer time come to a close, just bask in adoration of Jesus.
Very often things will come out of prayer- a call you have to make; someone to forgive; a conviction about giving or serving.
April 5, 2009
The following readings will walk you through “Palm Sunday,“ the Sunday before Easter, the day Jesus entered Jerusalem. Jesus and his followers came to the city to celebrate the Passover and the week long Feast of Unleavened Bread. These events commemorated Israel’s liberation from Egypt, when God “passed over” homes marked by the blood of a lamb. The religious leaders knew that Jesus, a rabbi, would be in Jerusalem and conspired to have him killed.
Anticipation
Read Matthew 21: 1-11
Anticipation is different than having expectations. Try to get past your pre-existing expectations for how and where God will work in this time and this coming week. Just anticipate drawing deeper into a relationship with God through Jesus. Anticipate a richer understanding of your salvation that will deepen your relationship with God, your sense of peace and security in the work of Christ, and your awareness of the presence of the Holy Spirit. Anticipate an amazing Holy Week and Easter celebration.
“Hosanna” was a Hebrew expression that meant, “Save us!” It became an expression of praise. As you begin this time of prayer, start with praise. Praise God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
Now, more specifically, pray over those areas in which you need saved. As the crowd shouted, “Save us,” call to Jesus, “Save me.” Get specific, save my life, my children, my marriage, my job, save my...
Preparation
Read Matthew 21:12-17
In a fit of righteous anger Jesus drove the hucksters and shysters from the temple. What in you should elicit some righteous anger from Jesus? What does he want to drive out from you? After all, we are taught that
our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit. He wants us to be better at being ourselves!
This is your time of confession. Air your sins. Clear out the dirty laundry. Confession is good for the soul! How have you gone against God? What needs turned over and removed from your life? Have faith that wherever Jesus turns you over and cleans you out, he is also going to set you right and fill you up.
Jesus goes on to teach that his Father’s house will be a house of prayer. Drawing the connection, we should be people of prayer. Read again the simple praise of the sick and the children, v. 14-15. How are you sick? Where do you need healed? Pray about it. Then spend some time in that child-like praise. Keep it simple, honest, real. Just praise him as you might want to be praised by a child.
Supplication
Read Matthew 21:18-22
Now here’s the hard part. Let’s stretch our faith in prayer. Don’t get too wrapped up in studying this passage. Let it inspire your heart-felt prayers. Pray like you can move mountains! Pray it like you really believe it! Make this the bulk of your prayer time. Here are some suggested areas to pray over in Supplication:
• Your own relationship with God to grow deeper and closer this coming week.
• Blessing and healing for your spouse, children, and other loved ones.
• Salvation for family and friends who don’t know Jesus as their Lord.
• Blessing and growth at Connections Community Church.
• The needs of our neighbors- hurting marriages, broken families, unemployment, sickness, mental illness, AIDS in Africa, etc.
• Pray for local leaders right up through to world leaders.
• Pray for the end to war- focus on the Israel, Afghanistan and Iraq. Pray for peace.
Adoration
Read Matthew 26:6-13
Think of a time when you were adored. How did it make you feel? How did you respond? What can you offer to God in adoration? What have you been holding back? What would unabashed, unashamed, unrestrained adoration of Jesus look like for you? How can you give Him your all, your best? As your prayer time come to a close, just bask in adoration of Jesus.
Very often things will come out of prayer- a call you have to make; someone to forgive; a conviction about giving or serving.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Good for Us
CONNECTION GROUP QUESTIONS
March 22, 2009
Opening:
Your five + minutes for announcements at the start of your meeting are INVALUABLE to keep people informed and involved. Tell them what’s coming up, recruit new volunteers, and involve them in serving within your group.
We’d actually like you to do things a bit differently at this meeting. One of the reasons we love groups meeting in homes is that this provides a natural connection to our neighborhoods.
Our hope is that our Connection Groups become our primary source for community outreach and service. Let’s talk about this tonight.
Digging Deeper:
Take a few minutes and brainstorm some outreach ideas for Easter-
* Is there a project you can take on?
* A family you can help?
* An agency you can volunteer with?
Give the following challenge: Whom can you invite to Connections this Easter?
What will it take to get your neighbor, a co-worker, a friend to church this Easter? Maybe all they need is a heart felt invitation? Maybe bringing them a meal would show them you really do care?
Easter is a natural season for reaching out to our community. If you get folks to Connections April 5 and 12 you can promise them an amazing service. We’ll also be handing out gifts to everyone who joins us. Not only that, but every new visitor who gives us their contact information also receives a gift card in the mail. So be assured- when you invite folks to Connections, we will go out of our way to show them our appreciation and love.
Closing:
Ask everyone in the group to think about who that person(s) will be. Share names and pray for them by name. Tell them you'll be asking for updates at in the coming weeks.
If you have time- talk about sex! Read 1 Corinthians 6 & 7
12"Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything. 13"Food for the stomach and the stomach for food"—but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also. 15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."17But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit.
March 22, 2009
Opening:
Your five + minutes for announcements at the start of your meeting are INVALUABLE to keep people informed and involved. Tell them what’s coming up, recruit new volunteers, and involve them in serving within your group.
We’d actually like you to do things a bit differently at this meeting. One of the reasons we love groups meeting in homes is that this provides a natural connection to our neighborhoods.
Our hope is that our Connection Groups become our primary source for community outreach and service. Let’s talk about this tonight.
Digging Deeper:
Take a few minutes and brainstorm some outreach ideas for Easter-
* Is there a project you can take on?
* A family you can help?
* An agency you can volunteer with?
Give the following challenge: Whom can you invite to Connections this Easter?
What will it take to get your neighbor, a co-worker, a friend to church this Easter? Maybe all they need is a heart felt invitation? Maybe bringing them a meal would show them you really do care?
Easter is a natural season for reaching out to our community. If you get folks to Connections April 5 and 12 you can promise them an amazing service. We’ll also be handing out gifts to everyone who joins us. Not only that, but every new visitor who gives us their contact information also receives a gift card in the mail. So be assured- when you invite folks to Connections, we will go out of our way to show them our appreciation and love.
Closing:
Ask everyone in the group to think about who that person(s) will be. Share names and pray for them by name. Tell them you'll be asking for updates at in the coming weeks.
If you have time- talk about sex! Read 1 Corinthians 6 & 7
12"Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything. 13"Food for the stomach and the stomach for food"—but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also. 15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."17But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit.
18Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 19Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.
1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. 2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Good for Her
Opening:
Let’s start with the assurance that His grace is enough. This subject may have brought up painful, shameful, difficult memories and emotions. Take time to discuss and process this as a group of loving and gracious people.
Digging Deeper:
Let’s jump right into Song of Solomon. Read the background to this book of poetry and them jump into chapters 1 and 2.
We are approaching this thematically. What emerges is the love story of a couple. From the perspective of asking, “What’s good for her?” we see many lessons emerge.
How is does he engage in WORD PLAY? Does this mean we all have to be poets? Women, help the husbands and young men to understand what good word play means. How can words build up or tear down a woman? Just how important are words to you?
How does he engage in CHORE PLAY? All right, he was a king and probably didn’t help out too much around the colonnade. But he does take an interest in the details. How can we help out with chores around the home, and help us to understand why this is so important to your sexual well-being.
Finally, we do see a lot of FOREPLAY in these poems. They had it bad for each other. Take this as an opportunity to discuss how a woman thinks about (or doesn’t think about) sex. Is there truth to sayings such as, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” Feel free to discuss the questions your group raises. Focus on making it “good for her.”
Remember, keep bringing this back to biblical and experiential truths. Next week we’ll be getting into texts such as Ephesians 5, but feel free to go there now.
Closing:
Eat some apples and pray!
Let’s start with the assurance that His grace is enough. This subject may have brought up painful, shameful, difficult memories and emotions. Take time to discuss and process this as a group of loving and gracious people.
Digging Deeper:
Let’s jump right into Song of Solomon. Read the background to this book of poetry and them jump into chapters 1 and 2.
We are approaching this thematically. What emerges is the love story of a couple. From the perspective of asking, “What’s good for her?” we see many lessons emerge.
How is does he engage in WORD PLAY? Does this mean we all have to be poets? Women, help the husbands and young men to understand what good word play means. How can words build up or tear down a woman? Just how important are words to you?
How does he engage in CHORE PLAY? All right, he was a king and probably didn’t help out too much around the colonnade. But he does take an interest in the details. How can we help out with chores around the home, and help us to understand why this is so important to your sexual well-being.
Finally, we do see a lot of FOREPLAY in these poems. They had it bad for each other. Take this as an opportunity to discuss how a woman thinks about (or doesn’t think about) sex. Is there truth to sayings such as, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” Feel free to discuss the questions your group raises. Focus on making it “good for her.”
Remember, keep bringing this back to biblical and experiential truths. Next week we’ll be getting into texts such as Ephesians 5, but feel free to go there now.
Closing:
Eat some apples and pray!
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Good For Him
Opening:
The whole point of this is to get men and women talking about what is good in our relationships. So don’t split up! Single men and women and couples need to talk about this stuff. So here we go…
Digging Deeper:
Read Genesis 2:23-25
First, this is the most common trajectory for people- venture out, find a spouse, have kids. But, it’s not always the case. We will, however, focus on this trajectory. Discuss if necessary.
98% of men say they are visual. 25% of women say they are visual.
What do we mean by this?
Do you agree that men seem to be created as visual beings, and that this is even normal and good?
How has the visual tendency of men turned toward destructive and sinful things?
How can we turn this created norm toward good and glorifying things?
Let’s focus on the man-
Job 31:1 I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully upon a woman.
The break in the cup of men makes us long for visual arousal that can and often does lead to very harmful practices.
How can we make and live this kind of covenant? Share, discuss, debate.
Now the woman-
1 Timothy 2:9 I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety…
Discuss/debate how we can put this into practice.
Do you agree that it is a good thing for wives to be visually stimulating for their husbands?
What about the encouragement to “take care of yourselves?”
Why does this seem to matter so much to men?
Can this be mutually edifying?
Closing:
Can we get back to the place where we can be naked and without shame?
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Genesis 2: 23-25
23 The man said,
"This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called 'woman,'
for she was taken out of man."
24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.
Job 31:1 I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully on a woman.
1 Timothy 2: 9 I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety...
The whole point of this is to get men and women talking about what is good in our relationships. So don’t split up! Single men and women and couples need to talk about this stuff. So here we go…
Digging Deeper:
Read Genesis 2:23-25
First, this is the most common trajectory for people- venture out, find a spouse, have kids. But, it’s not always the case. We will, however, focus on this trajectory. Discuss if necessary.
98% of men say they are visual. 25% of women say they are visual.
What do we mean by this?
Do you agree that men seem to be created as visual beings, and that this is even normal and good?
How has the visual tendency of men turned toward destructive and sinful things?
How can we turn this created norm toward good and glorifying things?
Let’s focus on the man-
Job 31:1 I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully upon a woman.
The break in the cup of men makes us long for visual arousal that can and often does lead to very harmful practices.
How can we make and live this kind of covenant? Share, discuss, debate.
Now the woman-
1 Timothy 2:9 I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety…
Discuss/debate how we can put this into practice.
Do you agree that it is a good thing for wives to be visually stimulating for their husbands?
What about the encouragement to “take care of yourselves?”
Why does this seem to matter so much to men?
Can this be mutually edifying?
Closing:
Can we get back to the place where we can be naked and without shame?
____
Genesis 2: 23-25
23 The man said,
"This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called 'woman,'
for she was taken out of man."
24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.
Job 31:1 I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully on a woman.
1 Timothy 2: 9 I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety...
Monday, March 2, 2009
Was it good for you?
Message: It's not good to be alone...
March 1, 2009
Opening:
Have you ever experienced a profound loneliness? Not just a lonely moment, but a season of feeling deeply alone? What was that like, or what do you image that is like? Why do you think solitary confinement is so feared?
Digging Deeper:
We were made for relationships- a common theme here at Connections.
Read Genesis 1:26-31. Discuss the implications, and ramifications, of being God’s image bearers. What does this say about our purpose, our design, our relationships in/to the world?
Read Genesis 2:1-22. After the general account of creation God reveals more about his image-bearers, men and women. What is unique in our creation? How does this expand what began in chapter 1? What is the role of the man? What is the relationship between man and God?
Why is it not good to be alone? What are some GREAT ways that we seek relationship?
What are some NOT GREAT ways that we’ve sought connection?
Why must we seek what is different, yet “like” us? What is the balance between “like” and “different?”
Reflect on the creation of the woman. DON’T get in verses 23-25- we’re saving that for later!
Closing:
This isn’t about marriage- this is about seeking GOOD relationships with fellow image bearers. How can we pursue greater connection and deeper relationships with our fellow image bearers? Discuss and pray.
March 1, 2009
Opening:
Have you ever experienced a profound loneliness? Not just a lonely moment, but a season of feeling deeply alone? What was that like, or what do you image that is like? Why do you think solitary confinement is so feared?
Digging Deeper:
We were made for relationships- a common theme here at Connections.
Read Genesis 1:26-31. Discuss the implications, and ramifications, of being God’s image bearers. What does this say about our purpose, our design, our relationships in/to the world?
Read Genesis 2:1-22. After the general account of creation God reveals more about his image-bearers, men and women. What is unique in our creation? How does this expand what began in chapter 1? What is the role of the man? What is the relationship between man and God?
Why is it not good to be alone? What are some GREAT ways that we seek relationship?
What are some NOT GREAT ways that we’ve sought connection?
Why must we seek what is different, yet “like” us? What is the balance between “like” and “different?”
Reflect on the creation of the woman. DON’T get in verses 23-25- we’re saving that for later!
Closing:
This isn’t about marriage- this is about seeking GOOD relationships with fellow image bearers. How can we pursue greater connection and deeper relationships with our fellow image bearers? Discuss and pray.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
He's Just That Into You, pt. 2
February 22, 2009
Opening:
Last week we had a discussion about our experiences of feeling loved (and unloved). We looked at several passages that assured us that God loves us. This week we want to find out what difference knowing and embracing God’s love can make in our lives. Ask yourself in this discussion, “Do I really believe in the promise of John 3:16?”
Digging Deeper:
John 3:16 can be broken down into four simple movements:
Discuss each- how did God show his love? Use examples from the Old Testament, New Testament, and your life.
What did God give? What did it really cost? Why was there such a high price to pay? This part of the conversation should focus on the “atoning sacrifice” of Jesus. Why a sacrifice? Why Jesus? Why did if have to happen this way?
Read 1 John 4:7-12. How dies this help us to understand the effects of sin and the sacrifice of Christ.
What does belief actually look like? Where do trust and faith fit in? Does this make it all seem too easy for us? Why is belief so important to God?
What does eternal life mean? Really, examine the implications of God’s promise of eternal life.
Closing:
Ask yourselves, “What do I really make of this promise? Is there eternal life in Jesus, and if so, what does that mean for our present life in Jesus?” And of course, pray for one another.
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1 John 4:7-12
7Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Sonb]">[b] into the world that we might live through him. 10This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice forc]">[c] our sins. 11Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
Opening:
Last week we had a discussion about our experiences of feeling loved (and unloved). We looked at several passages that assured us that God loves us. This week we want to find out what difference knowing and embracing God’s love can make in our lives. Ask yourself in this discussion, “Do I really believe in the promise of John 3:16?”
Digging Deeper:
John 3:16 can be broken down into four simple movements:
- God loves…
- God gave…
- We believe…
- We live…
Discuss each- how did God show his love? Use examples from the Old Testament, New Testament, and your life.
What did God give? What did it really cost? Why was there such a high price to pay? This part of the conversation should focus on the “atoning sacrifice” of Jesus. Why a sacrifice? Why Jesus? Why did if have to happen this way?
Read 1 John 4:7-12. How dies this help us to understand the effects of sin and the sacrifice of Christ.
What does belief actually look like? Where do trust and faith fit in? Does this make it all seem too easy for us? Why is belief so important to God?
What does eternal life mean? Really, examine the implications of God’s promise of eternal life.
Closing:
Ask yourselves, “What do I really make of this promise? Is there eternal life in Jesus, and if so, what does that mean for our present life in Jesus?” And of course, pray for one another.
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1 John 4:7-12
7Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Sonb]">[b] into the world that we might live through him. 10This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice forc]">[c] our sins. 11Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
He's Just That Into You, pt. 1
CONNECTION GROUP QUESTIONS
February 15, 2009
Opening:
A fun start would be to share some Valentine memories- vote for who has the best and worst story!
Another fun start would be to listen to the song “Yellow,” by Coldplay.
Yellow - Coldplay
Look at the stars,
Look how they shine for you,
And everything you do,
Yeah they were all yellow,
I came along
I wrote a song for you
And all the things you do
And it was called yellow
So then I took my turn
Oh all the things I've done
And it was all yellow
Your skin
Oh yeah your skin and bones
Turn into something beautiful
you know you know I love you so
You know I love you so
I swam across
I jumped across for you
Oh all the things you do
Cause you were all yellow
I drew a line
I drew a line for you
Oh what a thing to do
And it was all yellow
Your skin
Oh yeah your skin and bones
Turn into something beautiful
you know for you i bleed myself dry
For you i bleed myself dry
Its true look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine
look at the stars look how they shine for you
Digging Deeper:
Some find it hard to believe that God is love. Others find it had to believe they are lovable. Where do you fall? What experiences have shaped your beliefs in this regard?
Read Psalm 139:1-16.
Does this frighten you, or thrill you?
Do you want to be this close to God, or would you prefer a more distant relationship?
What does this tell us about God?
What does this teach us about ourselves?
What does it mean to be fearfully and wonderfully made?
What does it mean that God has ordained all the days for you?
Read Zephaniah 3:17.
The heart of this series is try to grasp, or even experience, this biblical teaching- God is really THAT into you. He is with you, loves you, delights in you, and saves you, he even sings over you.
Have you longed for this love? Have you experienced this kind of love?
What do you long to hear from God? What is the song He is singing over you?
Closing:
Encourage each other with some “whispers.” What do you want to tell each other? Spend this time in prayer with God and with one another, sharing some of those things we long to hear; we need to hear.
Psalm 139…
1 O LORD, you have searched me
and you know me.
2 You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.
3 You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.
4 Before a word is on my tongue
you know it completely, O LORD.
5 You hem me in—behind and before;
you have laid your hand upon me.
13 For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
16 your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
Zephaniah 3:17
The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save.
He will take great delight in you,
he will quiet you with his love,
he will rejoice over you with singing."
February 15, 2009
Opening:
A fun start would be to share some Valentine memories- vote for who has the best and worst story!
Another fun start would be to listen to the song “Yellow,” by Coldplay.
Yellow - Coldplay
Look at the stars,
Look how they shine for you,
And everything you do,
Yeah they were all yellow,
I came along
I wrote a song for you
And all the things you do
And it was called yellow
So then I took my turn
Oh all the things I've done
And it was all yellow
Your skin
Oh yeah your skin and bones
Turn into something beautiful
you know you know I love you so
You know I love you so
I swam across
I jumped across for you
Oh all the things you do
Cause you were all yellow
I drew a line
I drew a line for you
Oh what a thing to do
And it was all yellow
Your skin
Oh yeah your skin and bones
Turn into something beautiful
you know for you i bleed myself dry
For you i bleed myself dry
Its true look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine for you
look how they shine
look at the stars look how they shine for you
Digging Deeper:
Some find it hard to believe that God is love. Others find it had to believe they are lovable. Where do you fall? What experiences have shaped your beliefs in this regard?
Read Psalm 139:1-16.
Does this frighten you, or thrill you?
Do you want to be this close to God, or would you prefer a more distant relationship?
What does this tell us about God?
What does this teach us about ourselves?
What does it mean to be fearfully and wonderfully made?
What does it mean that God has ordained all the days for you?
Read Zephaniah 3:17.
The heart of this series is try to grasp, or even experience, this biblical teaching- God is really THAT into you. He is with you, loves you, delights in you, and saves you, he even sings over you.
Have you longed for this love? Have you experienced this kind of love?
What do you long to hear from God? What is the song He is singing over you?
Closing:
Encourage each other with some “whispers.” What do you want to tell each other? Spend this time in prayer with God and with one another, sharing some of those things we long to hear; we need to hear.
Psalm 139…
1 O LORD, you have searched me
and you know me.
2 You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.
3 You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.
4 Before a word is on my tongue
you know it completely, O LORD.
5 You hem me in—behind and before;
you have laid your hand upon me.
13 For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
16 your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
Zephaniah 3:17
The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save.
He will take great delight in you,
he will quiet you with his love,
he will rejoice over you with singing."
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Soul Revolution: REVEAL
Opening:
Take time to welcome any new comers. Perhaps you’ll need to look over the Connection Group Commitment again- review the hopes and expectations for these groups. Perhaps mix things up a bit this week- take the first part of your gathering to pray for one another. Share joys and concerns and invite everyone to participate.
Digging Deeper:
Read the story of the “Road to Emmaus,” Luke 24:13-35. The two disciples (about how many disciples were there at this time?) were talking about “all that had happened.” Review what had happened in the days preceding and read v.19-24.
Jesus changes gears and begins “revealing” to them the scriptures. Some have said that v. 27 is the most frustrating verse in the bible! Imagine what that conversation may have covered and share your thoughts or even bible passages.
Starting in v. 30 we find a “communion-like” scenario. Why do you think Jesus reveals himself at this time and in this way?
Verse 32 has become descriptive for many who come to faith. Dive into this- have you ever had a “burning heart” experience while in worship, reading the bible, in prayer, in a conversation? Feel free to go deep here! This is the crux of the soul revolution!
Read John 8:31. This one verse gives us simple and clear guidance for the Christian life. Review some of the teachings of Jesus that have directed your life. Expect, and enjoy, the variety of responses within your group. Feel free to go deep and use up your time here.
Closing:
This wraps up the “Soul Revolution” series. We have talked more about an internal change of heart, rather than any outward practices or disciplines. What has God been doing inside of you? Pray for each other if you have not already done so.
LUKE 24:13-35
13Now that same day two of them were going to a village called Emmaus, about seven miles[a] from Jerusalem. 14They were talking with each other about everything that had happened. 15As they talked and discussed these things with each other, Jesus himself came up and walked along with them; 16but they were kept from recognizing him.
31To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, "If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. 32Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
Take time to welcome any new comers. Perhaps you’ll need to look over the Connection Group Commitment again- review the hopes and expectations for these groups. Perhaps mix things up a bit this week- take the first part of your gathering to pray for one another. Share joys and concerns and invite everyone to participate.
Digging Deeper:
Read the story of the “Road to Emmaus,” Luke 24:13-35. The two disciples (about how many disciples were there at this time?) were talking about “all that had happened.” Review what had happened in the days preceding and read v.19-24.
Jesus changes gears and begins “revealing” to them the scriptures. Some have said that v. 27 is the most frustrating verse in the bible! Imagine what that conversation may have covered and share your thoughts or even bible passages.
Starting in v. 30 we find a “communion-like” scenario. Why do you think Jesus reveals himself at this time and in this way?
Verse 32 has become descriptive for many who come to faith. Dive into this- have you ever had a “burning heart” experience while in worship, reading the bible, in prayer, in a conversation? Feel free to go deep here! This is the crux of the soul revolution!
Read John 8:31. This one verse gives us simple and clear guidance for the Christian life. Review some of the teachings of Jesus that have directed your life. Expect, and enjoy, the variety of responses within your group. Feel free to go deep and use up your time here.
Closing:
This wraps up the “Soul Revolution” series. We have talked more about an internal change of heart, rather than any outward practices or disciplines. What has God been doing inside of you? Pray for each other if you have not already done so.
LUKE 24:13-35
13Now that same day two of them were going to a village called Emmaus, about seven miles[a] from Jerusalem. 14They were talking with each other about everything that had happened. 15As they talked and discussed these things with each other, Jesus himself came up and walked along with them; 16but they were kept from recognizing him.
17He asked them, "What are you discussing together as you walk along?"
They stood still, their faces downcast. 18One of them, named Cleopas, asked him, "Are you only a visitor to Jerusalem and do not know the things that have happened there in these days?"
19"What things?" he asked.
"About Jesus of Nazareth," they replied. "He was a prophet, powerful in word and deed before God and all the people. 20The chief priests and our rulers handed him over to be sentenced to death, and they crucified him; 21but we had hoped that he was the one who was going to redeem Israel. And what is more, it is the third day since all this took place. 22In addition, some of our women amazed us. They went to the tomb early this morning 23but didn't find his body. They came and told us that they had seen a vision of angels, who said he was alive. 24Then some of our companions went to the tomb and found it just as the women had said, but him they did not see."
25He said to them, "How foolish you are, and how slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken! 26Did not the Christ[b] have to suffer these things and then enter his glory?" 27And beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, he explained to them what was said in all the Scriptures concerning himself.
28As they approached the village to which they were going, Jesus acted as if he were going farther. 29But they urged him strongly, "Stay with us, for it is nearly evening; the day is almost over." So he went in to stay with them.
30When he was at the table with them, he took bread, gave thanks, broke it and began to give it to them. 31Then their eyes were opened and they recognized him, and he disappeared from their sight. 32They asked each other, "Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?"
33They got up and returned at once to Jerusalem. There they found the Eleven and those with them, assembled together 34and saying, "It is true! The Lord has risen and has appeared to Simon." 35Then the two told what had happened on the way, and how Jesus was recognized by them when he broke the bread.
JOHN 8:31-3231To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, "If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. 32Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Soul Revolution: RESPOND
February 1, 2009
Opening:
Take time to welcome any new comers. Perhaps you’ll need to look over the Connection Group Commitment again- review the hopes and expectations for these groups. You may want to formally commit to being an active participant in the group for the semester.
Digging Deeper:
Last week you probably had to breeze over the bible story, so go back and review John 15:1-8. Share what God has been doing in your life- some clear-cutting and burning away, some pruning, or
bearing some amazing fruit! It may only be the second week, but take a chance and be real.
Pick up the story in verses 9-17. Let’s focus on our REPONSE and the fruit that God wants to nurture through our lives. This passage teaches us that God chose us. What do you make of this promise? Is it a comfort, or troubling? Do you feel chosen? Do you believe God has “appointed you to bear fruit?” If so, what is that fruit? What do you think God chose you for- what does he want you to do? What fruit might come through your life?
If you have time, discuss the experience of Communion in the worship service. Was this anyone’s first time participating in this? Did anyone in the group feel they could not participate? Discuss what this “sacrament” means. How does this provide us a real way to respond to Jesus’ invitation?
Closing:
We value relationships and praying for one another in these groups. Our passage teaches us “The Father (God) will give you whatever you ask in my name (Jesus).” (15:16) In a way that feels comfortable for the group, share your questions about prayer, and your prayer requests. Pray for the group members, or even invite group members to pray for one another.
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John 15:9"As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. 11I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. 12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command. 15I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 16You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit—fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. 17This is my command: Love each other.
Opening:
Take time to welcome any new comers. Perhaps you’ll need to look over the Connection Group Commitment again- review the hopes and expectations for these groups. You may want to formally commit to being an active participant in the group for the semester.
Digging Deeper:
Last week you probably had to breeze over the bible story, so go back and review John 15:1-8. Share what God has been doing in your life- some clear-cutting and burning away, some pruning, or
bearing some amazing fruit! It may only be the second week, but take a chance and be real.
Pick up the story in verses 9-17. Let’s focus on our REPONSE and the fruit that God wants to nurture through our lives. This passage teaches us that God chose us. What do you make of this promise? Is it a comfort, or troubling? Do you feel chosen? Do you believe God has “appointed you to bear fruit?” If so, what is that fruit? What do you think God chose you for- what does he want you to do? What fruit might come through your life?
If you have time, discuss the experience of Communion in the worship service. Was this anyone’s first time participating in this? Did anyone in the group feel they could not participate? Discuss what this “sacrament” means. How does this provide us a real way to respond to Jesus’ invitation?
Closing:
We value relationships and praying for one another in these groups. Our passage teaches us “The Father (God) will give you whatever you ask in my name (Jesus).” (15:16) In a way that feels comfortable for the group, share your questions about prayer, and your prayer requests. Pray for the group members, or even invite group members to pray for one another.
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John 15:9"As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. 11I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. 12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command. 15I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 16You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit—fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. 17This is my command: Love each other.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Soul Revolution: RECONNECT
Welcome to our 2009 winter semester. Take the first part of your gathering to introduce yourselves. Share:
Digging Deeper
Look over the “Group Commitment” so everyone is clear on the purpose and design of these groups.
Group Commitment
Connection Groups target the second part of our mission- to connect with people. We believe that being in relationships, in the body of Christ, is an essential part of every Christ-followers life.
In the days of the early Church the first Christ followers gathered the first day of the week (Sunday) for worship. In addition, they meet throughout the week in homes (Acts 2:46; Romans 16:5; 1 Corinthians 16:19; Colossians 4:15). We believe that being a part of a Connection Group is not something we do in addition to “going to church,” it is essential to “be the church.” Why? Because relationships matter- with God and with other people in “the body of Christ.”
We gather around the following values:
Common Purpose: To become more Christ-like in everything.
Common Place: To become more a part of our neighborhood.
Common Possessions: To become more generous in supporting one another spiritually, emotionally, socially and physically.
Therefore,
Closing
Read John 15:1-8 and APPLY this to your life:
1"I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. 2He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. 3You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. 4Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.
- • Who you are,
- • Why you got involved with a Group,
- • What you hope will come out of your time together.
Digging Deeper
Look over the “Group Commitment” so everyone is clear on the purpose and design of these groups.
Group Commitment
Connection Groups target the second part of our mission- to connect with people. We believe that being in relationships, in the body of Christ, is an essential part of every Christ-followers life.
In the days of the early Church the first Christ followers gathered the first day of the week (Sunday) for worship. In addition, they meet throughout the week in homes (Acts 2:46; Romans 16:5; 1 Corinthians 16:19; Colossians 4:15). We believe that being a part of a Connection Group is not something we do in addition to “going to church,” it is essential to “be the church.” Why? Because relationships matter- with God and with other people in “the body of Christ.”
We gather around the following values:
Common Purpose: To become more Christ-like in everything.
Common Place: To become more a part of our neighborhood.
Common Possessions: To become more generous in supporting one another spiritually, emotionally, socially and physically.
Therefore,
- • We agree to meet for the duration of this semester.
- • We will try to make every Group meeting.
- • We will discuss the topic/text of worship services or our focus group.
- • We will make worshiping at Connections a priority for our own growth, and to actively participate in these discussions.
- • We will support our facilitators and hosts and respect their roles.
- • We will be respecters of persons.
- • We will practice confidentiality.
- • We will seek to deepen relationships within the group.
- • We will play together.
- • We will serve together.
Closing
Read John 15:1-8 and APPLY this to your life:
- • Have you been in a season of “clear-cutting” in your soul? Where is God trying to bring new life?
- • How has God been pruning you this season? What needs cultivated, or what needs to go?
- • What is the fruit that God is nurturing in/through you? What would it look like to simply “abide” and let Jesus produce this fruit in/through you?
1"I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. 2He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. 3You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. 4Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.
5"I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. 6If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. 7If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. 8This is to my Father's glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
2009 Winter Catalog
Registration has begun!
To register online go to www.connectionschurch.ca
Just hit the "Contact Us" form,
leave you name, email, and which group you want to join.
A leader will be in touch.
Groups start the week of January 25, 2009 and last 12 weeks.
Central Lunch
Wednesdays 12-1pm, 531 Talbot St.
East Central
Wednesdays 7-8:30pm, 48 Apeldoorn Cres.
Northwest London (Hyde Park)
Sundays 6:30-8pm, 106 Barrydale Cres.
Southeast
Sundays 8-9:30pm, 111 Kipling Ave.
Southwest (Byron)
Sundays 6:30-8pm, 736 Griffith St.
West (Strathroy)
Every other Friday 7:30pm, 304 Helen Dr.
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ALPHA
Mondays 6:30-8:30pm, The Palasad on Oxford
PURPOSE: Finding & Fulfilling Your Unique Purpose in Life
Mondays 7:30-9pm, 1058 Sherbourne Rd.
A $10 fee to cover the cost of books is required
P.O.P.S. (Parents Of Pre-Schoolers)
Thursdays 10:30-11:30am, Upper Room Bookstore,
Fanshawe Park Road West
Marriage Preparation Course
Beginning January 25, meeting 5X bi-weekly
4-6pm, 531 Talbot St.
To register online go to www.connectionschurch.ca
Just hit the "Contact Us" form,
leave you name, email, and which group you want to join.
A leader will be in touch.
Groups start the week of January 25, 2009 and last 12 weeks.
Central Lunch
Wednesdays 12-1pm, 531 Talbot St.
East Central
Wednesdays 7-8:30pm, 48 Apeldoorn Cres.
Northwest London (Hyde Park)
Sundays 6:30-8pm, 106 Barrydale Cres.
Southeast
Sundays 8-9:30pm, 111 Kipling Ave.
Southwest (Byron)
Sundays 6:30-8pm, 736 Griffith St.
West (Strathroy)
Every other Friday 7:30pm, 304 Helen Dr.
________________________________________________________________
ALPHA
Mondays 6:30-8:30pm, The Palasad on Oxford
PURPOSE: Finding & Fulfilling Your Unique Purpose in Life
Mondays 7:30-9pm, 1058 Sherbourne Rd.
A $10 fee to cover the cost of books is required
P.O.P.S. (Parents Of Pre-Schoolers)
Thursdays 10:30-11:30am, Upper Room Bookstore,
Fanshawe Park Road West
Marriage Preparation Course
Beginning January 25, meeting 5X bi-weekly
4-6pm, 531 Talbot St.
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