If Only?

Opening: Spend some time sharing your plans for Holy Week.

Digging Deeper: Read John 11: 1-16. Who were Lazarus, Mary and Martha? Read Luke 10:38-42

What did they expect Jesus to do?

Examine the conversation with the disciples. Why the hesitation? What is their confusion? Look at what Thomas says in v. 16. What is Thomas usually remembered for? Why is this statement so important?

V. 17-37. Notice both Martha and Mary's "If…" statements. They are usually seen very differently, but here they are at the same place in their faith.

What's the significance of "I am the resurrection and the life" statement?

Why is her belief so important to Jesus?

What is the significance of Jesus' weeping? What does this reveal in him?

V. 38-44. It's so Mary to worry about appearances. How dos that hinder her faith? Why the outspoken prayer? Examine its importance.

Closing:

What are the "If only's" of your life? How can we move toward a faith that asks instead, "What if?" What stones do you need to roll away? What are those stinking areas of your life? Will you hear Jesus' command to come out?